. . . if you want to leave it. The practice of law as you know it (and that little unhelpful fearful lizard brain voice in your head) can make you feel resigned to your fate, pigeonholed, stuck in a niche. They tell you that you can’t do much of anything else. They tell you that you can’t be “intellectually stimulated” anywhere else. They tell you that the other options are beneath you.
The practice of law as you know it and that little unhelpful fearful lizard brain voice in your head want to keep you where you are. And this may be far, far away from your passion and happiness.
Those aren’t good friends.
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One of the “new rules”, investing in yourself simply means diversifying your portfolio.
Lawyers regularly or semi-regularly put money in various assets classes. Retirement funds holding stocks and bonds. Maybe real estate. Maybe a friend’s speculative tech startup. CD’s.
Depending on our risk threshold, we hope for a return on, and preservation of, this capital.
If you have been successful and have a small nest egg, use this to finance your own personal development. Leave the law and live off savings as you create the time to find out what is your passion and simply explore.
If the current paycheck is necessary to keep the lights on, stretch a bit and take a portion to hire a coach or mentor or someone else to find your passion and explore other opportunities . . . while you keep your day job.
Invest for a return on yourself.
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It’s a great feeling be able to comfortably afford (receive a paycheck) your and your family’s lifestyle.
It’s also a great feeling to take (save) the money and run.
Many do not pencil out how much money they actually need to provide a comfort level to leave the law: 12 months. 24 months. 36 months.
Until the unhappy lawyer sits down and thinks through this calculation, he or she will keep doing what they are doing, and keep getting what they are getting.
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Finding and monetizing your unique genius – that something that you are so good at, that comes so natural to you that you don’t even think of it as a skill – can take a long time and is a constant cycle of refinement and analysis.
It can be daunting and frustrating to find your “passion”. It is not easy. Everyone else seems to have one. It always seems to be changing on you. It’s murky. And it requires some personal therapy that can be scary.
It can be easier to identify what your passions are not. It’s sometime easier and a good first step to just be able to confidently say “I don’t like this” or “I just kinda like it” or “it’s okay, I guess” or “yeah, whatever”.
What you don’t like can be your guide to what you do.
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We all want to make money. We all want to be able to pay the bills, create a nice cushion, enjoy the finer things, give to charity, be admired, rent a boat, travel the world, buy things . . .
And whether we admit it or not, we likely want to work on something we enjoy. We want to focus on our passions, we want to make money from what we love doing. When we do what we love and what we’re good at, it just comes easily, it comes naturally, it makes us happy.
But we’re afraid. We’re afraid that we can’t make money from what we love. We think it’s impossible, a dream, something others will laugh at, something to not even be considered.
So . . . how do we make money from what we love?
The first step is to not focus on the money. Once we start thinking about making cash, we alter the process. It clouds how we view our passions. It doesn’t help us in formulating what we are really good at. We’re too concerned about the money end game, and not focused enough on the small beautiful details that form our unique genius.
Just in, from the Onion . . .
Law Schools Now Require Applicants To Honestly State Whether They Want To Go To Law School
September 15, 2010
NEW YORK—A growing number of law schools have begun requiring applicants to specify in writing whether they do, in fact, have some desire to attend law school, or are just using it as a predictable last resort. “We want to separate those who actually see themselves becoming attorneys from those who just want to put off joining the adult world for another three years,” Fordham Law School director Bruce Green said Thursday, showing reporters an application that asks students to check boxes marked “Really?” and “Seriously? You’re really that into this?” “We want prospective students to know that they will actually have to study the U.S. legal system. As in, the whole thing.” Word of the new requirement has already reportedly caused a 450 percent spike nationwide in applications to graphic design schools.
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If you do not own the web address for your own name, or variations thereof, go to Go Daddy right now and reserve it. This is a great babystep to get started. Reserve yourname.com, yourspousesname.com, yournameconsulting.com, theyournamegroup.com, and on and on. Even if you don’t use it right away, it’ll serve as a placeholder. For $10 a year.
Whether you like it or not, you are a start up. You are a company, a practice, a web site, in alpha phase. You are in development phase.
Today, you’d expect any viable company to have a web page. Do the same.
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Many, if not all of us, have to-do lists. Some keep them online, some in written notebooks, some on scraps of paper, some in their heads.
And many of us have a lot to do. We have client meetings and contracts to review and court hearings and briefs to write. We have to drum up business. We have to attend partner meetings.
We have to pick our kids up from school and go to their doctor appointments and parent teacher conferences.
We also need to relax and spend time with our family and enjoy ourselves and have fun and be lazy and rest.
And, for some of us, we also need to leave the law.
So how can we possibly leave the law, or even begin some of the tasks to leave the law, if we have so much on our current to-do lists?
Write down everything you need to do, today, next week, next month. Get it all on paper. And then make a smaller list, of all you need to do RIGHT NOW. Just that which is achievable this hour, today. You won’t get overwhelmed. You’ll take it in bite sized portions.
Your unique genius is a skill, a talent, something that you do so well, that
comes so naturally to you, that you may not even view it as a gift, as an
ability . . . or as a marketable opportunity.
Your unique genius is something you do, or have done, for so long, maybe so
effortlessly, perhaps so artlessly, that you consider it to just be part of
It is also something that you enjoy immensely.
In short, your unique genius is something you are damn good at and have a
fun time doing.
Some of our great talents are more easily identifiable than others. Some
people sing beautifully, some people write eloquently, some paint or draw
effortlessly, some tell hilarious jokes on a moment’s notice, others hit
tennis balls 100 miles an hour, some have a knack for languages, others seem
to always match their outfits just right, some just get the party started.
But other talents might be less tangible, harder to identify. Encouraging
others to be courageous. Consistently and attentively listening to others.
Leaving the law is absurd. You may call it ridiculous. Some may think it’s unreasonable. It’s just not rational.
I mean, c’mon, this is your job. This is how you pay your bills. This is what you went to school for. This is what people have expected of you.
And you make good money. And you can buy what you want. And you like the title. Leaving all of this is just absurd.
Which is great. This is just how it should be.
Because if it wasn’t absurd, it might not be worth talking about. It might not be worth even thinking about. It might not be worth attempting. Because, as Einstein observed, “If at first, the idea is not absurd, then there is no hope for it.”
So there is hope, for you, and for that idea you have . . . to set up that website, to open that store, to live off savings and travel the world for a while, to begin that small legal practice, to found that consulting business.
The very absurdity of leaving law is such a compelling reason to consider it.